Bride Stands Up for Herself by Telling Entitled Bridesmaid to Come as a Guest Instead Just 6 Days Before the Wedding

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    . r/bridezillas • 3 days ago littlechipy I told one of my bridesmaids to come as a guest
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    Hello, my wedding is in 6 days. I have 6 bridesmaids total. I have been very vocal and communicative with them in regard to the bridesmaids dresses, makeup and hair. The color dress I picked for the bridesmaids is black. I gave them
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    the option to purchase via website on my "show case" Azazie, or they could purchase another dress elsewhere (as long as it's floor length). I didn't have any restrictions as far as what style, material or cut of dress.
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    They could pick whatever dress they felt best in. Now for hair and makeup. I did a ton of research online and the asking prices for hair alone was $275 or 375. For the makeup I was quoted something similar $250 etc. I finally found a
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    reasonable makeup artist who charged $140 and hair $100. I sent the information in the bridesmaid group chat 3 months ago. I also made it clear that if they wanted to go elsewhere for hair and makeup or do their own hair and make that was completely fine.
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    One bridesmaid (let's call her) Kathy, decided she wanted to get her hair done by her friend as the cost would be cheaper. I was totally fine with that. Kathy messaged me today and wanted to know the makeup
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    price for "full glam" (this was information I had already provided). I told her it's $140. Kathy started making statements such as "YOUR so lucky this is your wedding", to which I asked "why"? Kathy replied "because that makeup artist work isn't with
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    $140 and I don't want to look like a trnny" (her words NOT mine). I explained to her that she could get her makeup done by someone else or do it herself (because I really don't mind). She kept insisting I was mad (when I wasn't) and then proceeded to say "I just pray I don't look like a trnny"
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    I finally had enough and just told her to come as a guest. I feel extremely upset and even cried. I gave her solutions and she just kept badgering me with insults.
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    Am I wrong? Should I have approached this differently?? Side note all of the bridesmaids have known for 3 months now who the hairstylist is and who the makeup artist is. Why would she bring this up 6 days before my
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    wedding. Again she's getting her hair done by her friend, which I fully supported. So why wouldn't I support her getting her makeup done by another artist. I just don't understand
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    littlechipy OP • 3d ago Hey there! Yes she definitely revealed her true colors today. I'm going to take it as a sign. That's not a friend. You guys are right. Thank you for the support
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    panda_pandora • 3d ago You're not the zilla here. I would have been fed up with that too especially since you're actually being pretty reasonable
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    Worldly_Act5867 • 3d ago I don't even understand her insults, but they are insults, so no, NTA
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    legomonsteruk • 3d ago • Omg that's awful of her! What did she say when you told her to come as a guest? From the stories I see on here, a wedding really proves who your real friends are
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    Time-Necessary8193 . 3d ago. People just like to complain. You gave her the option to choose her own team and she was still negative. I would of told her to sit this out too smh
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    Rare_Nobody_4040 • 3d ago Honestly this is someone just trying to cause drama. Tell her she is uninvited.
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    Fluid-Reaction9022 2d ago Invite rescinded! . "Honey, I don't care WHAT you look like on my wedding day because I won't be seeing you!" Much love and happiness to you on your special day!!!
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    "I finally had enough and just told her to come as a guest."

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